except for those from sandy hook elementary. every campus opened with extra security and grief counselors on hand. the parents whose 7-year-old wrestled with jake pinto, one of the victims, says it is tough but time. >> i don't think you are ever ready to send your child after to school aftering? like this happens. as much as we can get him back to normal we have to. >> reporter: most understand normal means something very different now. what can really be normal when you are talking about burying 6 and 7-year-old kids here. tomorrow victoria soto, one of the teachers who died trying to protect her students, will be the first adult from the tragedy laid to rest. live in newtown, connecticut, i'm jay gray, news4. ♪ ♪ when shadows fill our day >> dozens of students and staffers at george mason university gathered today for a vigil to remember the victims of the connecticut shooting. a flower represented each of the victims as their names were called out. speakers urged the crowd to make the most of the lives they have. >> we h